For ALL these years, you've never come to accept the beautiful Divine Design we know as RELATIVITY !! ?? I AM shocked! You won't see The Supreme Creator's *brilliant* Design in that, His simple scheme to make life fair for all who inhabit the Cosmos, whether they be local or distant?? I'm dismayed with you. Open your eyes.
Relativity guarantees that every being everywhere will live in "a basal world of supreme stature, owing deference to no greater realm". You really MUST read my mercifully brief web site on relativity. A good starting point is this here one-page exoneration of the wonderful masterful schema
http://placido.u21.0web-hosting.com/kavs/kjs/briefingetr.html. On the last sentence there's a link to a fuller treatise. See especially section entitled "Relativity in a Nutshell" and Addendum IV, Twin Paradox Resolved Without Accelerations. It's all good. It's right as rain, without a doubt, as you'll definitely see.
BTW: the ambiguous phrase, “moving clocks run slow”, is
not the meaningful verbiage, and it's not what physicists claim.